What Traveling Taught Me About Parenthood

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Although we have not been to all these places, we have been fortunate enough to travel outside the United States. Traveling before having children is a wonderful opportunity to explore the world, broaden your horizons, and create memories that will last a lifetime. Not only will this enrich your life, but it will also make you a better parent. By traveling, you gain a new perspective on the world, learn more about different cultures and lifestyles, and gain valuable skills and experiences that will serve you well as a parent.

Here are some great places to consider traveling to prior to having children and why this could make you a better parent:

  1. Europe: Europe offers a wealth of cultural, historical, and architectural riches that are sure to inspire and educate you. Traveling through Europe gives you a chance to immerse yourself in different cultures and gain a greater appreciation for history and art. This experience will help you to instill a love of culture and history in your children, and encourage them to appreciate the world around them.
  2. Asia: Asia is a vast and diverse continent that offers a wealth of cultural, spiritual, and natural beauty. From the bustling cities of Japan to the tranquil temples of Thailand, there is something for everyone in Asia. By traveling to this region, you can learn more about different cultures, religions, and ways of life, and gain a deeper understanding of the world. This will help you to raise children who are more open-minded and empathetic, and who understand the importance of respecting different cultures and beliefs.
  3. South America: South America is a vibrant and diverse continent that offers a wealth of natural beauty and adventure. From the Amazon rainforest to the Andes mountains, South America is the perfect place to get in touch with nature and experience a range of outdoor activities. By traveling to South America, you can gain a greater appreciation for the natural world, and inspire your children to develop a love of nature and the outdoors.
  4. Africa: Africa is a continent that is rich in culture, wildlife, and adventure. From the savannas of Kenya to the deserts of Morocco, Africa is the perfect place to experience a range of diverse environments and cultures. By traveling to Africa, you can gain a deeper understanding of different cultures and ways of life, and develop a greater appreciation for the natural world. This will help you to raise children who are more empathetic and understanding, and who appreciate the beauty and diversity of the world around them.
  5. Australia and New Zealand: Australia and New Zealand offer a unique and diverse travel experience that is sure to inspire and educate you. From the rugged wilderness of the Outback to the stunning beaches of the Pacific, these two countries offer a range of natural beauty and outdoor adventure. By traveling to Australia and New Zealand, you can gain a greater appreciation for the natural world, and inspire your children to develop a love of the outdoors and adventure.

In conclusion, traveling before having children is an excellent opportunity to broaden your horizons, gain new experiences, and develop valuable skills that will serve you well as a parent. By immersing yourself in different cultures and environments, you gain a greater understanding of the world. So if you are currently childless now is a great time to travel and learn! The experiences will only serve to make you a more phenomenal parent when that bundle of joy decides to show up…

Too Many Diaper Brands to Choose From

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The diaper aisle in the store seems to go on for days! Pampers, Huggies, Honest Company, Luvs, etc. etc. What is a distressed and ignorant parent to do? What if we don’t get the right kind? What if I ruin my kid for life because the diapers weren’t soft enough? What happens if I give my kid the worst diaper rash in the history of diaper rashes because I picked the wrong type? We can tell you that the Gabel Gaggle has had all these thoughts and concerns; as such, we have tried just about every single diaper brand on the market over the years… Here is our breakdown of some of the more common ones:

  1. Pampers: Pampers is one of the most popular diaper brands and has been a trusted name in baby products for generations. They have a ride range of diaper types including Swaddlers, Baby Dry, and Cruisers. Pampers diapers are known for their excellent absorbency and fit, which makes them ideal for active babies. However, some parents have reported that Pampers diapers can be more expensive than other brands. We have found the Baby Dry to be quite excellent in our experience!
  2. Huggies: Huggies is another popular diaper brand that offers a variety of diaper options, including Little Snugglers, Little Movers, and Snug & Dry. Huggies diapers are known for their excellent leak protection and comfortable fit, which makes them ideal for babies who are always on the move. Being a “premium” diaper brand they do tend to be a bit more expensive. We have found the Little Movers to be great for the not yet potty trained but running around the house period…
  3. Honest Company: The Honest Company is a relatively newer diaper brand that has gained popularity in recent years for its commitment to using eco-friendly and natural materials in their products. Honest diapers are made without harsh chemicals, fragrances, or lotions, making them a good choice for babies with sensitive skin. However, some parents have reported that Honest diapers may not be as absorbent as other brands, which can lead to more frequent changes.
  4. Luvs: Luvs is a more budget-friendly diaper brand that offers excellent value for the price. Their diapers are known for their excellent absorbency and leak protection, which makes them ideal for overnight use. However, some parents have reported that Luvs diapers may not fit as well as other brands, which can lead to leaks and discomfort for babies.
  5. Kirkland: If you are a Costco member then Kirkland brand diapers are great! We have used them very frequently because we can pick up a massive box of diapers for a relatively good price. Grab a 900 pack of individually wrapped Gold Fish crackers and a box of diapers and you are good to go for at least a few weeks!

In conclusion, there are many different diaper brands on the market, each with their own unique features and benefits. When choosing a diaper brand, parents should consider factors like absorbency, fit, eco-friendliness, and price to determine the best option for their family’s needs. Ultimately, the right diaper brand will depend on what works best for your baby and your lifestyle.

Poop and Pee, Cloth or Disposable: A Diaper Dilemma

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When it comes to choosing the best diaper for the babes, there are two main options: cloth diapers and “regular” (disposable) diapers. While both types of diapers serve the same basic purpose, there are obviously differences that an expecting parent should take into consideration.

Cloth Diapers: One of the biggest benefits of cloth diapers is their cost-effectiveness. While the upfront cost of purchasing cloth diapers may be higher than that of disposable diapers, over time, cloth diapers can save parents a significant amount of money. Cloth diapers can be washed and reused multiple times, reducing the need for parents to continually purchase new diapers.

Another benefit of cloth diapers is their environmental friendliness. Disposable diapers are not biodegradable and can take hundreds of years to decompose in a landfill. On the other hand, cloth diapers are made of natural materials like cotton or bamboo and can be reused many times, making them a more sustainable option. So if you are a true-hugger type cloth may be the way to go…

Cloth diapers are generally considered to be gentler on a baby’s skin. They are made of soft, natural materials that may be less likely to cause diaper rash or skin irritation. In addition, cloth diapers are available in a variety of sizes and styles, making it easier to find the right fit for your baby.

But wait… Cloth diapers aren’t perfect! One of the biggest challenges is the extra laundry that comes with using cloth diapers. They need to be washed and dried regularly, which can be time-consuming and requires extra resources like water and energy. In addition, cloth diapers may not be as absorbent as disposable diapers, and may require more frequent changes. As a family that has never used cloth diapers, we can say that the thought of having to clean poop off of the cloth diaper prior to washing it did not sound like fun to us (hence the Gabel Gaggle’s choice to use disposable for our kids)!

Disposable Diapers: We would argue that the biggest benefit of disposable diapers is their convenience. They are widely available at stores and can be easily disposed of after use. Disposable diapers are also more absorbent than cloth diapers, meaning you can likely go a bit longer before changes.

Many disposable diapers are made of materials that are designed to wick away moisture from the baby’s skin, potentially reducing the risk of diaper rash and skin irritation. In addition, disposable diapers are available in a variety of styles and sizes, making it easy to find the right fit for your baby.

Hold onto your horses! Like cloth diapers, disposable diapers also have issues! Unlike their cloth counterpart, they are not environmentally friendly. Additionally, disposable diapers can be more expensive over time, as they need to be continually purchased and replaced. And let me tell you… As a family with five little ones the amount of money we have spent on disposable diapers would make even Warren Buffet gasp (we joke, of course, but, actually not really)! Finally, disposable diapers may contain chemicals like dyes and fragrances that can be harmful to some babies, especially those with sensitive skin.

Both cloth diapers and disposable diapers have their benefits and drawbacks. Parents should consider factors like cost, environmental impact, skin sensitivity, and convenience when deciding which type of diaper to use. Ultimately, the choice will depend on what works best for your family’s needs and lifestyle. The Gabel Gaggle recommends disposable for primarily their ease of use, but then again we have never tried cloth diapers so take our advice with a grain of salt!

A Happy Mess: Embrace the Disorder and Cacophany

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When it comes to raising children, many parents strive for a picture-perfect home with everything in its place. And let me tell you, as a verified type A personality, I was convinced this is exactly how our home would be. However, the desire for order and cleanliness can often lead to stress, frustration, and unrealistic expectations. Embracing the “mess” in our homes when we have children can actually be beneficial for both parents and children.

First and foremost, accepting the mess in our homes can reduce stress and anxiety. Constantly trying to maintain a spotless home is exhausting, and can leave parents feeling overwhelmed and unfulfilled. Often times, one parent in particular feels the burden and stress more than another, which can lead to marital discord, which is obviously not great for raising children! By embracing the natural chaos that comes with having children, parents can let go of the need for perfection and focus on enjoying time with their kids.

Furthermore, allowing children to be messy and creative actually promotes their development and learning. Children learn through play, and allowing them to explore and experiment with different materials and activities can foster their creativity, imagination, and problem-solving skills. Allowing children to make a mess can also help them learn responsibility; encouraging them to clean up after themselves and take ownership of their actions are powerful life lessons.

Embracing the mess in our homes can also promote a sense of family togetherness and connection. When parents prioritize spending time with their children over maintaining a perfect home, they create opportunities for bonding and meaningful interactions. Instead of being consumed with cleaning and organizing, parents can focus on playing, reading, and engaging with their children in a way that strengthens the family unit. When I realized I was spending more time “cleaning up” and losing out on valuable time with my kids is when I felt it was time to draw the line!

Of course, it is important to maintain a clean and safe living environment for children. However, there is a balance that can be achieved between cleanliness and allowing children to be messy and creative. Setting boundaries and expectations around what is acceptable behavior in the home can help our children understand the importance of respecting their environment and others.

Embracing the mess in our homes when we have children can have numerous benefits for both parents and children. By letting go of the need for perfection and embracing the natural chaos that comes with raising kids, parents can reduce stress, promote learning and development, strengthen family connections, and create a more joyful and fulfilling home life. Stop watching, and more importantly believing in the “perfect” Tiktok family with their beautifully kept home (I guarantee as soon as the camera is off, the house turns back into a junkyard of toys and crayons)…

Get Your Stuff Together Before Having Kids: A Guide for the Worried

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Raising children is a challenging, yet rewarding, experience that requires preparation, planning, and commitment. Whether you are just starting to think about having children or are already pregnant, there are a number of steps you can take to prepare yourself for the journey ahead. In this article, we will discuss what a person should do before having children to improve their ability to raise children.

  1. Establish a strong support system

Having a strong support system is essential when it comes to raising children. This can include family members, friends, or a professional support network, such as a therapist or coach. Having people in your life who you can turn to for advice, encouragement, and support can make all the difference when it comes to dealing with the challenges of parenting. Take the time to build strong relationships with people you trust, and be sure to lean on them when you need their help.

  1. Evaluate your relationship

Having children can put a lot of stress on a relationship, so it is important to take the time to evaluate your relationship before having children. Make sure that you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to important issues such as parenting styles, family finances, and work-life balance. It is also a good idea to have open and honest conversations about your expectations for the future, and to work together to establish a plan for how you will handle the challenges of parenthood.

  1. Get your finances in order

Raising children can be expensive, so it is important to get your finances in order before having children. This may include paying off debt, creating a budget, and saving for the future. It is also important to consider the costs associated with having children, such as childcare, education, and healthcare. Taking the time to get your finances in order now will help you feel more confident and prepared for the financial challenges of parenthood.

                     

  1. Improve your physical and mental health

Good physical and mental health are essential for raising children. Before having children, take the time to focus on improving your own health. This may include eating a balanced diet, exercising regularly, and getting enough sleep. It is also important to manage any existing health conditions, such as anxiety or depression, to ensure that you are in the best possible position to raise children.

  1. Develop your parenting skills

Parenting skills can be learned and developed over time. Before having children, take the time to read books, attend workshops, or take classes on parenting. This can help you to learn about the different stages of child development, and to understand the challenges and rewards of parenting. Additionally, consider reaching out to other parents to ask for advice and to learn from their experiences.

  1. Consider your work-life balance

Having children can impact your work-life balance, so it is important to consider your work-life balance before having children. If you are planning to take time off work to raise children, think about how you will manage your finances during this time. If you plan to continue working, think about how you will balance your work and parenting responsibilities. It is important to establish a plan that works for you and your family, and to be flexible and open to changes as needed.

  1. Make time for self-care

Self-care is important for your own well-being, and it is also essential for your ability to raise children. Before having children, make sure to carve out time for self-care, such as exercise, hobbies, or simply relaxing. Having time for yourself can help you to recharge and to stay focused on your goals as a parent.

In conclusion, raising children is a challenging and rewarding experience that requires preparation, planning, and commitment. By taking the time to establish a strong support system, evaluate your relationship, get your finances in order, improve your physical and mental health, develop your parenting skills, consider your work-life balance, and make time for self-care, you can improve your ability to raise children. These steps will not only help you to feel more confident and prepared for the journey ahead, but they will also help you to provide a stable and loving environment for your children to grow and thrive.

It is important to remember that parenting is a lifelong journey, and there will be ups and downs along the way. However, by preparing yourself and approaching parenthood with a positive attitude, you can increase your chances of success. So take the time to do what you can to improve your ability to raise children, and embrace the journey ahead with excitement and joy.

Grandparent Wisdom: A Letter to Our Grandbaby

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Dear Grandchild,

Hopefully I will soon have the privilege of meeting you in person, I wanted to take a moment to write to you and share my love and hope for the life that lies ahead of you.

I can tell you from experience that life can be both beautiful and challenging, but it is ultimately a journey filled with opportunities for growth, discovery, and joy. You will have the chance to meet people from all walks of life, explore new places, and experience all the wonders that the world has to offer.

I encourage you to always look for the beauty in life, even in the most difficult of circumstances. There will be times when you feel lost or unsure of yourself, but these moments are what make us stronger and more resilient. Life is not always easy, but it is always an adventure.

I also encourage you to never stop pursuing your passions and dreams. Whether it’s painting, writing, music, or anything else that you are passionate about, make it a priority in your life. The pursuit of what we love is what brings meaning and purpose to our lives.

Most importantly, always treat others with kindness and respect. You will encounter people from all walks of life, and your actions and words can have a profound impact on them. Make it your goal to spread positivity and love wherever you go, and you will find that life becomes even more beautiful.

I hope that this letter finds you well and that you are surrounded by love and joy. Remember, life is a gift, and it is up to us to make the most of it. So embrace every moment, cherish every memory, and always strive to be the best version of yourself.

With love and admiration,

Your Grandparent

Pros and Cons: 5 Great Strollers to Consider…

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Strollers are a necessary investment for parents as they provide comfort and convenience for both the parent and the child. With so many options available, choosing the right stroller can be a daunting task. This article will discuss the top 5 strollers currently on the market, including their features, pros, and cons.

Baby Jogger City Mini GT2

The Baby Jogger City Mini GT2 is a versatile stroller that is designed for urban dwellers and parents on the go. It has a compact fold, adjustable handlebar, and adjustable calf support that make it easy to maneuver and store. The stroller also comes with a variety of features, including a large canopy, adjustable handlebar, and adjustable calf support.

Pros:

  • Compact fold makes it easy to store and transport.
  • Adjustable handlebar and calf support provide a comfortable ride for both parent and child.
  • Large canopy provides protection from the sun and wind.
  • Comes with a variety of features to make life easier for parents.

Cons:

  • Can be expensive compared to other types of strollers.
  • Not suitable for jogging or running.
  • Can be heavy and difficult to maneuver for some parents.

Uppababy Cruz

The Uppababy Cruz is a versatile stroller that is designed for urban dwellers and parents on the go. It has a compact fold, adjustable handlebar, and adjustable calf support that make it easy to maneuver and store. The stroller also comes with a variety of features, including a large canopy, adjustable handlebar, and adjustable calf support.

Pros:

  • Compact fold makes it easy to store and transport.
  • Adjustable handlebar and calf support provide a comfortable ride for both parent and child.
  • Large canopy provides protection from the sun and wind.
  • Comes with a variety of features to make life easier for parents.

Cons:

  • Can be expensive compared to other types of strollers.
  • Not suitable for jogging or running.
  • Can be heavy and difficult to maneuver for some parents.

                 

Bumbleride Speed

The Bumbleride Speed is a jogging stroller that is designed for parents who enjoy running or jogging with their children. It has a lightweight and compact design, making it easy to maneuver and store. The stroller also comes with a variety of features, including a large canopy, adjustable handlebar, and adjustable calf support.

Pros:

  • Lightweight and compact design makes it easy to maneuver and store.
  • Ideal for parents who enjoy running or jogging with their children.
  • Large canopy provides protection from the sun and wind.
  • Comes with a variety of features to make life easier for parents.

Cons:

  • Not suitable for everyday use.
  • Can be expensive compared to other types of strollers.
  • Not suitable for infants and young babies as they do not have a recline feature.

Graco Modes Duo Double Stroller

The Graco Modes Duo Double Stroller is a double stroller that is designed for parents with two children of similar age. It has a versatile design that provides a comfortable ride for both children, and comes with a variety of features, including recline, adjustable handlebars, and large storage baskets.

Pros:

  • Ideal for parents with two children of similar age.
  • Provides a comfortable ride for both children.
  • Comes in a variety of styles to suit different needs and preferences.
  • Large storage baskets allow you to bring all of your essentials with you.

Cons:

  • Can be heavy and difficult to maneuver.
  • Not suitable for jogging or running.
  • Can be expensive compared to other types of strollers.

Bugaboo Cameleon3 Plus

The Bugaboo Cameleon3 Plus is a versatile stroller that is designed for parents who want a stroller that can grow with their child. It has a adjustable seat and handlebar, making it suitable for children from birth to toddler age. The stroller also comes with a variety of features, including a large canopy, adjustable handlebar, and adjustable calf support.

Pros:

  • Adjustable seat and handlebar make it suitable for children from birth to toddler age.
  • Large canopy provides protection from the sun and wind.
  • Comes with a variety of features to make life easier for parents.
  • Suitable for a variety of terrains, including rough and bumpy surfaces.

Cons:

  • Can be expensive compared to other types of strollers.
  • Not suitable for jogging or running.
  • Can be heavy and difficult to maneuver for some parents.

In conclusion, choosing the right stroller for your child and family can be a daunting task, but it is important to consider your lifestyle, budget, and needs when making your decision. Each of these strollers has its own unique features and pros and cons, so it is important to do your research and try out different options before making a final decision. Ultimately, the right stroller will make life easier and more enjoyable for both you and your child.

When choosing a stroller, it’s important to consider the following factors:

  • Ease of use: Look for strollers that are easy to maneuver and store, and have features that make life easier for you, such as adjustable handlebars and large canopies.
  • Comfort: Make sure the stroller is comfortable for both you and your child, with features such as adjustable calf support, recline, and adjustable handlebars.
  • Safety: Safety should always be a top priority when choosing a stroller. Look for strollers that have safety features such as five-point harnesses and sturdy frames.
  • Budget: Strollers can range in price from a few hundred dollars to several thousand dollars, so it’s important to consider your budget when making a decision.
  • Lifestyle: Consider your lifestyle and what type of activities you and your child will be doing with the stroller. For example, if you enjoy jogging or running, you may want to consider a jogging stroller.

Ultimately, the right stroller for you will depend on your individual needs and preferences. By considering these factors, you can find the stroller that best fits your lifestyle and provides the comfort and convenience you and your child need.

Stroller Types: An Essential List for the New Parent

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Strollers are essential for parents and caregivers who want to take their little ones out and about without having to carry them. With the plethora of options available on the market, it can be difficult to decide on the best stroller for your needs. In this article, we will discuss the pros and cons of different types of strollers to help you make an informed decision.

Umbrella Strollers

Umbrella strollers are lightweight, compact, and easy to maneuver, making them a popular choice for parents on-the-go. They are ideal for short trips, and their small size makes them easy to store in a trunk or closet.

Pros:

  • Lightweight and easy to maneuver.
  • Compact and easy to store.
  • Affordable compared to other types of strollers.
  • Ideal for short trips or for use as a backup stroller.

Cons:

  • Limited storage space.
  • Not suitable for infants and young babies as they do not have a recline feature.
  • Not as sturdy as other types of strollers.
  • Can be uncomfortable for children due to limited cushioning.

Jogging Strollers

Jogging strollers are designed for parents who enjoy running or jogging with their children. They have large air-filled tires, adjustable suspension, and a locking front wheel that provides stability while jogging.

Pros:

  • Ideal for parents who enjoy jogging or running.
  • Large air-filled tires provide a smooth ride.
  • Adjustable suspension ensures a comfortable ride for your child.
  • Locking front wheel provides stability.

Cons:

  • Can be heavy and difficult to maneuver.
  • Not suitable for use on rough terrain.
  • Can be expensive compared to other types of strollers.
  • Not ideal for everyday use as they are designed specifically for jogging.

Double Strollers

Double strollers are designed for parents who have two children of similar age. They come in a variety of styles, including side-by-side and tandem strollers.

Pros:

  • Ideal forparents with two children of similar age.
  • Provides a comfortable ride for both children.
  • Comes in a variety of styles to suit different needs and preferences.
  • Large storage baskets allow you to bring all of your essentials with you.

Cons:

  • Can be heavy and difficult to maneuver.
  • Can be expensive compared to other types of strollers.
  • Not ideal for travel as they are bulky and difficult to store.
  • Side-by-side strollers can be difficult to navigate in narrow spaces.

In conclusion, there are many different types of strollers available on the market, each with its own unique pros and cons. When choosing a stroller, it is important to consider your lifestyle, budget, and the needs of your child. Full-size strollers and travel system strollers offer maximum comfort and convenience, but can be heavy and difficult to maneuver. Umbrella strollers are lightweight and compact, making them ideal for short trips, but not suitable for infants and young babies. Jogging strollers are designed for parents who enjoy running or jogging with their children, but not ideal for everyday use. Double strollers are ideal for parents with two children of similar age, but can be bulky and difficult to store. Convertible strollers are designed to grow with your child, but can be expensive. Lightweight strollers are easy to maneuver and carry, but limited in terms of features and comfort. Ultimately, the best stroller for you will depend on your individual needs and preferences.